Tuesday, May 4, 2010
I'll never grow up, never grow up, never grow up
My long, fruitless hunt for affordable Peter Pan collar blouses led me to believe that companies just didn't make them for humans beyond a Youth XL (which is actually too big for me, but I mean they don't run into adult sizes), until I was reminiscing about my first taste of Peter Pan collars from my Catholic school days and remembered that DUH I had to go to a uniform store to find one. Thus, girls' size 16:
Uniform blouses are usually boxy and sexless, but I guess the fit goes with the whole forever-prepubescent Peter Pan theme. (Now, if I could find an affordable Peter Pan collar dress, I'd be set for life.)
Monday, May 3, 2010
things i love: april 2010
When April's gentle rains have pierced the drought
Of March right to the root, and bathed each sprout
Through every vein with liquid of such power
It brings forth the engendering of the flower
Through every vein with liquid of such power
It brings forth the engendering of the flower
April, truth is - I'm crazy about you. How can I help it when you bring me things like...


- reading The House of Mirth in one-page installments, via DailyLit, via Gordon, during boring parts of my CogSci lecture
- Tom
- being a blogger
- naturally waking up at 7
- Bangkok Thai on University! Very good, and the interior is adorable.
- that upon hearing that I wasn't coming home for Easter weekend, my family came to visit armed with bags and bags of oranges, homemade cranberry oatmeal cookies, Rice Krispie Treats in the shape of Easter eggs with sprinkle designs, cartons of lactose-free milk, and children's toys
- repotting my plants and the feeling of dirt under my fingernails and the smell of damp earth
- my French math GSI for never having heard of L'Hospital's rule, and for pronouncing the S
- that I found my contact lens after dropping it on the floor of the women's bathroom in the library, and that nobody stepped on it
- getting a 94 on my math midterm, if only because one section asked for a prose explanation, and what I wrote was ambiguous enough to be correct
- reading about quarter-life crises
- Elisabeth, my Uma Thurman graduate student instructor, who told us in her German accent not to pursue anything unless we "have a fire inside for it," and who said that some people hit their quarter-life crises early, in college, and who confirmed that linguists don't get jobs
- that my current lab partner, Stephanie, is taking computer science classes with me this summer and this fall, which makes them that much less terrifying
- attempting pin curls after finding out that's what kater from all this happiness does to her hair, and discovering that they aren't that difficult (thanks to the following video tutorial)
- that Denny can't spell
- the pricelessness of feeling cute after months and months of the uglies
- deciding to skip math lecture to do math homework
- Shelby
- Harriet!
- Lincoln
- TK
- Connie
- Victoria
- Jess
- that my right shoulder doesn't get tired carrying around a laptop anymore
- the return of GLEE!!!
- Jon Groff (who is openly gay) as Jesse St. James UNF WHAT IS THIS MAN EVEN.
MELCHI GABOR! What a radical!
- backcombing my hair into a giant, voluminous mess, even if it is damaging
- Jessie + La Med
- the peculiar all-over numbing sensation that comes with using peppermint body wash
- Kathleen
- Charles, the other GSI, because he is a really good lecturer
- Henri for "Woah! When I said 'final,' all your heads popped up."
- my skirt from eShakti
- finishing a midterm... and being sad that it is over
- Denny and Spencer and Café Strada, as usual
- giggling with Daniel and trying to sit up really straight in class while producing voiceless nasals
- saying no
- watching a row of four guys in front of me fall asleep, all their heads lolling in different directions
- getting a pre-curve 90 on a midterm when the average is in the 70s
- Jergens Express & Nivea fake tan!
- the cute dirty blonde in suspenders holding a guitar walking down Telegraph, and mutual elevator eyes and smirks
- feeling woozy-tired before 10:30 PM
- The Cellar! (Jocelyn told me about it last year, but I had to check BARE magazine's blog for the exact location.)
- Joce & her cooking & Ching & Theatre Rice & the fellow who greeted me at the door by handing me a program and saying "That is a very nice top"
- Kyle Riabko's rendition of "Left Behind"
- strawberries
- seeing gay couples holding hands, because I'm not in San Francisco anymore
- hearing spoken Cantonese, because I'm not in San Francisco anymore
- Léon with diacritic, and the wonder that is YouTube

- the moment when I lie down in bed and my spine feels like it's uncrunching
- that 9 years of Catholic schoolgirl skirts have left my legs completely insensitive to the cold
- my attempted panade, thanks to LifeHacker
- Angela for baking our entire lab cookies and bringing us sour candy
- coming back to my apartment at around 9 PM to a cooked dinner of roast eggplant stuffed with pork with garlic shavings, angel-hair pasta, and green beans
- new shoesies!
- Little Henry's on Balboa. Yelp reviews be damned. I have too many childhood memories attached to this place.
- Tony, who should technically be filed under Things I Love: May 2010, but I'll give him 33 minutes of leeway
- This disproportionately huge photo collection of Serious Lookers Jake Gyllenhaal and Frida Gustavsson:
Sunday, May 2, 2010
Weekend Gettaway
(target towels, goyard bag, ray ban glasses, zinka sunscreen, forever 21 jewelry, harajuku lovers wedges, louboutin wedges, missoni jellies, fendi purse, forever 21 jumper, forever 21 floral dress, ella moss dress, reefer madness book)
Packing is always a drag. I always bring too many shoes and almost always forget something important like deodorant or face wash... Gross, but true. One time I went to China and forgot to pack underwear!! HAHA! Ben had to FedEx me undies because the shops in the area of China I work in didn't have anything big enough for my butt. It was pretty hilarious but that's a whole different story...
(CONTINUE READING...)
These Harejuku Lovers wedges are one of my first designs for the brand. I finally got myself a pair and was excited for weather warm enough to warrant wearing them. And yes- thats bright pink Zinka. Remember how cool that stuff used to be? I'm bringing it back like Wendy Brandes is bringing back denim on denim!
(CONTINUE READING...)
On the way out to our weekend in Palm Desert I wore my "sensible" Louboutins (I love calling them that) and this super cute new skirt I got at Forever21. Yay for inexpensive clothes! It sure makes shopping for Spring a while lot easier.




It was bright but the wind was seriously threatening to blow my skirt up!
(skirt- Forever21, tank- silence + noise, sweater- frenchi, glasses- Ray Ban, shoes- Christian Louboutin)
old habits die hard
I want this on my head like, now.
Above, In the garden of good and evil headband by Calicogarden, $28 on etsy
Above, In the garden of good and evil headband by Calicogarden, $28 on etsySaturday, May 1, 2010
darling excuse me i think you're on fire
Second attempt at curly hair: I never thought I would say this, but the curls were too tight. I had to dampen my hair and finger-comb it before leaving the house in the hopes that it'd wilt over the course of the day.
Intelligent commentary intelligent commentary.
Intelligent commentary intelligent commentary.
Friday, April 30, 2010
Hi. I'd like to open a can of worms.
I'm probably going to offend someone. (What else is new?) But if you haven't heard about the Payless/Chictopia upset at Independent Fashion Bloggers, you can read Jennine's article here. I wasn't going to say anything but WOAH guys my picture is up there too. (From this post.)
Now I thought they'd just pulled everyone who ever used "Payless" in an outfit tag, but there aren't actually that many pictures up, so I guess not. Anyway they obviously chose the picture where my disastrous haircut was least noticeable. Aha-ha.
FIRST OF ALL, I don't think bloggers should have any kind of grievances with Chictopia or Payless for using their pictures, because they (and I) signed away their rights when agreeing to the Terms of Service. That's our problem. Not theirs. Even if they don't link back. If it's in the Terms of Service, YOU AGREED TO IT.
SECOND OF ALL, while Jennine was supposed to be acting as a facilitator for the comments (and she did, at some nasty parts), I definitely think she jumped to conclusions when responding to the comment made by Liz from Late Afternoon and when talking about Helen from Chictopia's lack of response. I mean I'm probably biased because I've met both Helen and Liz in person, and I haven't met Jennine, but I thought this was such a sensationalist issue and Jennine didn't give the other side a chance to say anything before pointing Fingers Of Serious Accusation.
THIRD OF ALL, I think it's fine to want to make money off your blog. It's fine. The point of blogging is to have something that is all your own. So no one should be telling anyone what to do with their blogs unless it's hurting someone.
FOURTH OF ALL, OMGWTF I thought IFB was about community. What happened to that? So someone has an unpopular opinion. There's no need to degrade the comments section into a series of personal attacks and there is never any need to call a girl you don't know a whore. I wonder if this would have happened if we were having an open forum in person. ...Didn't think so.
FIFTH OF ALL, SERIOUSLY? Seriously? We're talking about legality of image use in an online endeavor where people almost never properly credit sources? Hell, I don't properly credit (photo) sources. I consider a link or name-drop to be enough credit for myself, so I do the same for everyone else. If Payless wants to use the images I GAVE UP THE RIGHTS TO when I posted them to Chictopia, so be it. If people really want to know who's in those pictures, of course there's a way to find out. Oh my God. If you see some classy-ass bokeh photo on someone's tumblr with no source link (oh, does this happen often? I had no idea) and want to find the photographer, THERE ARE WAYS TO FIND THEM. If people are interested enough, they'll find you. It's the goddamn internet, you guys.
SIXTH OF ALL, get over yourselves. We are all just girls who like good clothes. If you're treating your blog as a business, then be more careful with where you're posting your pictures.
AND LASTLY, dude, I'm on the Payless website. WHAT!!!
[EDIT: I thought perhaps because I only checked the Payless website a few hours ago, Chictopia had already started adding bloggers' links to their Style Watch gallery, but Kristine from eli presentacion (she works for Chictopia) tells me that the usernames have always been there. That is, if you click on the picture of me, you get taken to this screen:

and if you click that nifty Read More link, you see this:

So pretty much everything from my original Chictopia post has been preserved (except the formatting of the links, but I assume that was an oversight on Payless's part. Still, they bothered to parse everybody's photos to figure out what shoes they were wearing). It's made very obvious on the Payless website that this style gallery was formed in collaboration with Chictopia, and there is definitely credit attribution here - it's not like my photo of myself is being marketed as Payless's creative genius.
Now I understand why Erin from calivintage (whom I have also met in person and whom I think is epic and a total badass!!) would have preferred if Payless had contacted her to use her images directly, rather than use her images through Chictopia. If we're just talking about links, no, there is no link to her blog on the Payless website. So no, Payless isn't going to directly increase her traffic.
But (this is my FIFTH OF ALL point) I think that if people are interested enough, they'll figure out that they should search for your username on Chictopia. And that's a benefit for the blogger. Regardless of how indirect.
My two cents. /]
the sudden drift of the rain
Florals? For spring? Groundbreaking.
Hah, that's my Check Out My Hair pose. [EDIT: HAH, no it's not. It's my "One of the tabby things on the shoulder fell off mid-morning" pose.]
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